how can I possibly have self worth, confidence or self esteem when i know how mediocre i am?

13. You are so thoughtful, and I am fortunate to have you in my life. Thoughtful people are the best people to have in your life. When they always think about you and do sweet things for you, make sure they know how you feel. You are lucky to have someone like that, and letting them know will be the best. 14. You are essential and valuable. 3. Self-Esteem Journal. The self-esteem journal is another straightforward but effective exercise for clients suffering from feelings of low self-worth. This Self-Esteem Journal For Adults provides a template for each day of the week and three prompts per day for your client to respond to, including prompts like: Something I did well today… Studies show that people with high self-esteem think more about growth and achievement, and people with low self-esteem think mostly about not making mistakes. Step 13: Talk Positively About Someone Every day. The words you speak aren't 'just words,' they actually have an effect on your self-esteem and mood. What is Self Esteem? The Meaning Of Self-Esteem – Definition. Psychology Today defines self-esteem simply as one’s self-judgement. It can be differentiated into two types: the “trait” self-esteem, which is person’s inherent level of self-esteem, and the “state” self-esteem, which is dependent on the relative success or failure of a relevant or personal goal (James, W., 1980).

2022.01.25 02:01 KCdeluxe how can I possibly have self worth, confidence or self esteem when i know how mediocre i am?

idk, everything I've tired has failed and I'm too weak too vulnerable to try anything else at this point. i dropped out of school ahd. literally haven't done anything since. I'm 20 now.
music, computer stuff, art, three things I'm interested in but unable to pursue, it hurts to much to try anymore.
i need a job, that's going to be the rest of my life, working, not towards anything just to stay above water. i know that what it's like for s lot of people but i know a few rich people and i can't stand hearing them bitch and moan about "not having to work for anything" i can't stand it.
so yeah, i know this is just what life is like but i have zero conference, esteem, worth or hope in life. it hurts, even if not uniquely it still hurts so bad.
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2022.01.25 02:01 Segofer Who is veteran chester? (Spoilers for gen 5)

In black 2 white 2 a trainer guarding the magma stone with pokemon the same level as the champion in its initial battle, the magma stone is an item that summons and presumably controls the pokemon heatran.
Maybe it is better that this veterans stay somewhat anonymous/ lacking recognition in the plot of the story, they would only be interested in battling. Just found it cool.
Also, I remember seeing some image on the internet about the background of a shot in the anime having a heatran, that is pretty funny. Maybe the strongest trainers would stay anonymous, that does make sense.
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2022.01.25 02:01 Distances1 [USA-MI][H]Asus Strix GTX1080ti-O11G-Gaming [W] Paypal

Everything works great, only selling because I finally upgraded my PC. Model number: ROG-STRIX-GTX1080TI-011G-GAMING. Comes with original box, manuals, etc. Will ship in the original anti static bag. $550 shipped within continental US - Pictures w/ timestamp
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2022.01.25 02:01 itssdragzz Not getting mini race rewards

Not getting mini race rewards Why am I not getting the mini race rewards?
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2022.01.25 02:01 Fireshot-V After more than 10 years playing P4, today I discovered that Yu has a canon birthday

We usually think that the MC in each game have no birthday since they are a self insert and what not. But today, playing for like 12th time P4 (this time in Steam to get all the achievements there as I did on Vita), I finally completed all the Model Scooters since that side activity was always a "waste of time".
To anyone that doesn't know, after you fulfill Hermit's Rank 6, you unlock a store in Shopping District North where at night the owner can give you one of twelve models, six robots (based on Digital Devil Saga) or six scooters (based on everyone's bike except Kanji's). He will only give you a new model when you finish the previous one, and you work on those at your table on your room.
So, after I finished all the robots and scooters I was looking at the 3D models (since you can zoom and rotate them if you put them on exhibition on your room), and io and behold, I noticed something:
The license plates on Yosuke's, Chie's, Yukiko's, Rise's and Naoto's scooters are their birthdays. 6-22, 7-30, 12-8, 6-1 and 4-27 respectively. I though that Yu's scooter would be blurred or have Dojima's birthday on it, 5-16. Or even Nanako's, 10-4.
But no. There was a date, and it wasn't anyone else's birthday, rather a completely random date that, following the pattern, it can only mean that it is Yu's canon birthday.
So our chad MC from P4 was born at July 10th. He is younger than Yosuke for almost two weeks, and Rise is less than a year younger than him.
The age order in the Investigation Team then would be:
Yosuke > Yu > Chie >> Yukiko >> Naoto > Rise >>> Kanji >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Teddie
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2022.01.25 02:01 Jason185479 [17m] Hey um I’m this random nerd who needs some friends and yeah idk what to write anymore

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2022.01.25 02:01 sharewithme Word of The Hour: materia

materia translates to matter
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2022.01.25 02:01 Ayr909 Indian newsrooms breed Islamophobia ahead of state elections

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2022.01.25 02:01 sharewithme Word of The Hour: matéria

matéria translates to matter
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2022.01.25 02:01 krishreddit In other words, water is wet.

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2022.01.25 02:01 Mankow36 Christian at college

I am at a small small college where I am one of the only Christians. I am constantly wrestling with doctrines hell, soteriology, evolution, and on and on. Returning to the bible is always so comforting, but the internet is also a place where I can quickly search and get so many different answers - which sucks. I hate having the internet at my fingertips because whenever I am wrestling with something I will do a quickly google search or look up some Christian leaders and quickly go down a long rabbit hole of conflicting views all being shoved in my face. I want to find truth but the internet makes it so stressful. Any tips?
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2022.01.25 02:01 prawnbiryani #unsplashcats #cute #adorable #kittens #cats #followformore

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2022.01.25 02:01 dinnerbiach I think it belongs hear

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2022.01.25 02:01 Link_040188 That will probably never happen again!

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2022.01.25 02:01 ScBoobeahr Fighting off a horrible cold but still look cute atleast

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2022.01.25 02:01 jesusislord77777 A girl is born into sex slavery…

When she is a baby. She’s raped repeatedly her entire life until the age of 30 when she’s brutally murdered. What happens to her in eternity?
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2022.01.25 02:01 1drinkmorewater [xbox] [h] cr [w] cc2 bs volts & any cert bs neuro agitator

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2022.01.25 02:01 sharewithme Word of The Hour: көлем

көлем translates to matter
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2022.01.25 02:01 700Ivy If this is goodbye, I can’t even hold your hand. But why Carlos? Why?

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2022.01.25 02:01 Nicokeacola05 I think I lost my best friend and I'm basically loosing my shit

It's a long story but basically we(both 16) dated for a week and afterwards he quickly started distancing himself from me. He was my one real attachment to his large friend group of geeky stoners and alt kids.
We were basicly inseparable before everything. We talked everyday. He was always calling me and checking up on me. Giving me advice and always reassuring me whenever I had shit going on and j was there for him the best I could. He's helped me change so much as a person and we were all we had during quarantine. I just really loved and cared about him and I still kinda do. He was also extremely affectionate and I really felt like I could trust him with anything. He was just my favorite person and he was the first person I told everything to.
He hasn't called or texted me since we broke up in September. Apart from like the 2 quick times we texted out of necessity. We sit at the same lunch table everyday and half the time when ouhis friend isn't there he ditches me and hangs out at another table with his gym bro or skips.
Things are okay in person. We talk about whatever I mostly have to but into him and our friends conversations about video games or weed to feel even remotely included. I have to watch him make plans and talk about kids who seemly only saw me as his assessory and don't talk to me anymore either. So that was pretty insulting since he was the one who got me out of my shell. It's like I'm not even apart of the group anymore.
I still have a few close friends who stayed by my side or were apart of diffrent friend groups. I've managed ti make a few more close friends but its still not the same. I guess I'm just looking for another person to treat me like he did. I don't know if I'm expecting too much since he was such a big factor of my life before.
He's more or less made going to the gym and being a stoner his intire personality. Needless to say he's changed a lot. He was kinda some geeky kid who liked video games before. Its something I wouldn't have minded if he still kept me in his life but is mostly just bothers me because it's a constant reminder of how much better he's doing without me. I wouldn't care so much if he wasn't living some awesome teenage jock dream he always talked about wanting. He just through me out so quickly without a second thought it made me feel worthless to him.
Hes also just really apathetic and rude to me a lot of the time now. I feel like he never listens to me and I've talked to him seriously through text multiple times about this. Its always a half asses 1 sentence apology that gives the impression he completely missed the point. I told him I was getting bullied in my Spanish class and he said it was for wearing this cringy hat. He brushes me off anytime I try to talk about my life or feelings.
Worse thing was when he left me on read when I finally worked up the balls to invite him and a bunch of other kids over to my house for a new years eve party. He supposedly went to a better party with drugs along with most of the other kids I invited. Nobody came apart from my girl best friend and some freshman kid who's basicly my brother. It stung but I figured it was too short notice.
I did talk to him about this and I think he apologized.
A few months ago if I wanted to hang out or express my concerns I just would talk to him. I've felt like I've been on such thin ice I'm terrified to even say i miss hanging out and we should do it again. Every attempt to fix things the best way I know how just makes things more awkward. He seems to think I'm some bitch he can't shake off no matter how hard he tries.
Friends and family all say im wasting my time and they're probably right. I've been told if he wanted to hang out with me he would. And they're probably right. I'm scared of burning bridges. I hate this school year because I was going into it expecting the best year ever and its basically turned into the worse. I just hate myself for several reasons and I can't just let go no matter how hard I try. My brother constantly calls me pathetic and a loser over this and it hurts a lot. I'm more miserable than not most of the time and I'm just really tired. I don't like how much this is effecting my life. Everyone around me is doing great and I'm just stuck being ungrateful even though I have so much other stuff going for me. I know friends come and go but I hate it. I have it in my head the only way I can be happy again is if things go back to normal and it's just out of reach. My friends refuse to meet me in the middle and I'm starting to hate them for it even though I try not to be resentful. I just can't anymore. I feel like a complete fucking loser all the time and I'm fucking done taking shit form anyone.
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2022.01.25 02:01 w0nderinggg ih. hii. ho. UH

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